Lessons learned from the observation of others…

In life, you learn a lot from the decisions to make and the actions you take…you also learn a great deal from witnessing the decisions and actions of others. This is something that has become clear to me in the last 3 months or so…

 
  • There’s a difference between being assertive, and being a dick.

  • There’s a difference between letting go, and giving up.

  • There’s a difference between moving on, and running away.

  • There’s a difference between standing up for yourself, and avoiding blame.

  • There’s a way of feeling happiness, without being happy.

  • It is 100% possible to love someone else without loving yourself, but you cannot be good to anyone else if you’re not first good to yourself.

  • A relationship will not bring you permanent happiness; don’t expect it to, but do not neglect the happiness and support it does bring you.

  • If a person shows you selfless love and support, you do not have to accept it, but the least you can do is respect it.

  • People will put up with a lot of crap for the ones they love, but even the most loyal of souls have a limit.

  • Lying is the highest form of disrespect, especially in the face of those you love and who love you.

  • Sometimes you don’t get what you deserve, but you will never get more than you give.

  • Do not expect anything- good or bad.

  • There’s a difference between being excused, and making excuses; especially when it comes to mental health.

  • What you achieve is 95% down to dedication.

  • If you are unhappy with your life, don’t bitch about it- do something about it!

  • Stop focusing on the one reason why it won’t work and start focusing on all the reasons why it will…

Courage;

Alice xxx

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